I started writing my book

Well, after about 3 years, I finally started writing Roses on the Windshield. I also figured out why I was unable to make any progress. It was about honesty with myself, where I was in my life and the journey that got me here.

It’s really been a spiritual awakening for me and, in a way, quite liberating. When I used to sit down to write, nothing would happen. It wasn’t writer’s block because I wrote a lot of other things for clients and for other sites and projects I have going and I never had a problem with any of them.

I now have several chapters written and think it’s coming along pretty nicely. I’ll be offering the first two chapters for a free download once I have them completed. If you would like an advance copy, be sure to sign up for the Roses newsletter. I’ll admit that I haven’t been real great on keeping up with it to date but once you read the first two chapters, you’ll understand why.

Til next time,

Love and Roses on your Windshield,

Paul

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Where have I been???

“Paul, where have you been and what is up with Roses on the Windshield?”

A lot of people have been asking me this question. Locally, people know I’m still around but I had to pull back from a lot of work on Roses until I got some things settled in my life. I run my own Professional SEO services business and there have been times when I was pretty buried with client work and also finding new clients!

Leah - I still miss her

In addition to that 2010 was quite an eventful year. Both of our daughters graduated from college, one of them moved away to Iowa (she also got engaged – we’re real excited about that). Both of Brenda’s parents passed away (they were in their 90′s and it was their time) during the summer.

Then, in early October Leah, our dog and my best friend for thirteen and a half years also passed on. I was pretty devastated for quite some time.

At the beginning of November, we got a new puppy, who we named Emma. She’s a Catahoula-Lab mix that we rescued from a shelter in Kentucky.

Here it is – February 10, 2011 and I’ve been thinking a lot about Roses on the Windshield. I’ve received a couple beautiful stories and really want to get the first edition out soon. I’ve got some exciting things planned to get new stories from our fellow Rose lovers. Keep coming back to the blog because this is where I’ll be announcing all updates.

Until the next time,

Wishing you love and Roses on Your Windshield,

Paul

Emma, our new pup

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The Four Agreements – Don Miguel Ruiz

The Four Agreements – One of the most important books I’ve ever read.

One the most influential books I’ve ever read is the Four Agreements by Don  Miguel Ruiz.

His lessons apply to enjoying a life filled with love and romance as it shows us how to love ourselves.

Don Miguel has blessed us with a new agreement.

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Roses on the Windshield – Our special way of growing our love

This is the story of our love in video. We want to thank Jon Michaels
for his beautiful song.

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Roses on the Windshield – My first TV interview

Well, I made it on the morning news to talk about Roses on the Windshield! I was a bit nervous because I had so much I wanted to say but only 3 minutes to talk! I bumbled at the beginning and tried to make a recovery :-)

Anyway, here’s the video!

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Happy Sweetest Day

Happy Sweetest Day!

Dear friends,

October 17 is Sweetest Day and I have a special gift for you
to use to create a very special gift to the Rose in your Life.

Sweetest Day was actually started by a group of confectioners
in Cleveland, OH in 1921. Herbert Birch Kingston, who worked for
a candy company wanted to bring some joy into the lives of the
underprivileged such as orphans, shut-ins, the lonely elderly,
hospitalized people and many of the “forgotten others.”

He gathered together his candy-making friends and hatched
the plan to give boxes of candy to these people.

On this first Sweetest Day, they distributed 20,000 boxes of candy.

Since then, it has grown into a holiday to show love and appreciation
to those we love

For you, I created a special gift to show my love and appreciation
for being a person who has come into my life through Roses on the Windshield.

  • CLICK HERE to Download The Sweetest day Dozen Roses pdf
  • Underneath the poem How do I Love Thee by Elizabeth Barrett Browning
    is a list for you to complete your dozen roses.
  • On each line, write something you love or admire about your special love.
  • Roll it up and tie it with a pink ribbon.
  • Place it in the center of a dozen roses.
  • Give it to your beloved.
  • If possible, video their reaction
  • Enjoy the rest of a beautiful and love-filled day

You can also click on the photo below to download the pdf.

Sweetest Day Roses on the Windshield List

While you are here, be sure to click the tab above to learn how you can be a co-author in the upcoming first edition book, Roses on the Windshield!

If you like this site and post, please click one of your favorite bookmarking sites from the Share tab below to help spread the word about Roses.

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What’s in a Name?

Brenda and I were married i n 1980. Like a lot of young
couples we went to parties and get-togethers with friends
and family.

One of my relatives had a high school friend who I saw at
a lot of the parties. He was a nice guy and I enjoyed
talking to him with one exception: He called his wife his
“Old lady.” At the time, I was 23and he was 21 (not
exactly old).

I don’t know if it was an act , if he was trying to
impress people or if that was the way he thought. I never
liked it and thought it was sort of mean.

One night, we were talking in a group and he called Brenda
my “Old Lady.” I said to him, “Brenda’s not my old lady.
She’s my wife. You can call her my wife, bride or Brenda
but please don’t ever call her my old lady.”

He looked at me like he was a bit shocked and said, “Sure.”

Our words and the meanings we assign to them are very
powerful and I think it’s important that when we speak of
the person we love, we do so with kind words.

By the way, the guy I spoke about was divorced many years
ago. Maybe the negative words added up…

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Express love with a list of gratitude

Espress love with RosesSometimes it can be easy to get stuck in a rut or to take the
ones you love for granted. Here’s an incredibly powerful
method for turning that feeling into amazing feelings of love.

For the next thirty days, write down 10 things about your
love (or a person for whom you have feelings) that is special
or wonderful about them or about why you are grateful they
are in your life.

Each time you complete the list, close your eyes and
think of the things on the list and feel the gratitude.

At the end of the thirty days, take the list, roll it up
and insert it into the middle of a dozen roses. Put the
Roses on the Windshield of their car (or somewhere else
they will find it as a surprise).

I think you will be pleasantly surprised with the result.

Love and Roses on your Windshield,
Paul

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Express love with dramatic thoughts

Have you ever thought of expressing love with extreme drama?  Have you ever thought of how you can find and be the perfect soul-mate?

form conversionsTry asking the universe. Try praying to God. Ask and pray with great detail. Be bold!

Instead of just asking for a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife or a better relationship, try this two step process by saying:

1. “I pray and desire that I that my relationships are  incredibly amazing. I desire to be an wonderful wife (husband, etc.) and bring absolute joy, happiness, friendship and fulfillment to my soul-mate.”

2: “I am so happy and grateful that I am in such a wonderful relationship. It is such an incredible feeling to awaken each day and go to bed each night knowing that he/she and I are so in love and lucky to be with each other.”

Now feel the words deep in your heart and release them to world!

Do this every day and see what happens. I’d love to hear back from you about the results.

Love and Roses on your Windshield,

Paul

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Express love to yourself

Take a moment and think of the most
beautiful rose you’ve ever seen. The soft
texture, the delicate veins that were
transporting life through the petals, the
subtle variations in color and the
magnificent fragrance.

Do you see it? Can you smell and feel it?

Is it still in your memory? Can you see how
the beauty of the rose now only exists
because of you? You can describe it, maybe
you can paint or draw a picture of it.

The beauty of the rose is in you. The love
it represents is in you. That’s because you
are beauty and you are love.

I hope you see that as clearly as the truth
it represents because you deserve to know
the truth of what you are. I can see it in
you.

With love and Roses on your Windshield,

Paul

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